Thanks for the insights Lord-Grey . I'm new to this. My situation is now (with GND connected):
1. Connect data cable to GPIO18 (GPIO_GEN1), and I can manipulate colors with /dev/leds0:
this is where my idea came from to manipulate /dev/leds0 as a file. But I think you can ignore my comment, as I wasn't aware there exists a SK6812spi.
2. I wasn't aware of SPI. So using the comment of Ambient_theater77, I researched a bit and understand that I connect data cable to GPIO10 SPI_MOSI and enable SPI in config. I point it at /dev/spidev0.0 and setup SK6812spi in Hyperion.NG. In this situation, I don't know how to test. At least the LED strip doesn't light up when I use remote control. I feel like I'm very close. (logs attached)
Thank you for this fantastic project!