sounds like you should just buy an Philips AMbilight TV and this project is not for you. You have too many grey areas and unable to move components to desired locations to assist you in making it all work.
Your video capture device needs to be semi decent to minimise other parts and poor quality but you may benefit from a decent splitter/grabber that allows the CEC etc and a cheap capture device, at the end of the day its only to get a signal for the lights, everything else is passing to the tv as normal to allow your HDR CEC etc.
I went down the Hyperion route as it looked cool, i spent £20 on LEDs and used my pi4 straight on the GPIO with a phone charger - it worked perfectly as I only originally wanted my media player to light up the wall so Platform Capture done everything i needed.
The more i used it the more i wanted my normal tv to light the wall too, so trial and error on cheap parts led me to buying a £45 Splitter and a cheap capture device - works perfectly even though capture device will only let me set the resolution of the leds to 720p its still beautiful. So i committed and upgraded the build.
That suits me fine as I can access netflix, youtube amazon and all that Jazz from my TiVo box so the leds work with that too.
Others use android grabber to grab their TV and send that to Hyperion - eliminating the need for any HDMI splitters or capture cards.
So it boils down to how do you adapt it to suit your setup, where are the bulk of the apps etc that you use?
Buying any prebuilt system always carrys the risk of scalability and future upgrading issues at least if you build it yourself you are in control.
I am happy with the 720p from my capture card and will try another cheap one later to see if i can achieve the 1080, The devs at Hyperion are doing an awesome job and this will get better as time goes by so bugfixes and features will be added, can this be said about any prebuilt system? - good example of the downsides to prebuilt is here https://hyperion-project.org/t…or-preset-disabled.11357/
but yeah £130 later and im glad i went the Hyperion route over any other method, I know my parts can be repurposed and reused if required